The landscape is littered with broken hearts.
Most of us do not want to think about the what-ifs. We do not want to consider failure.
You need to forgive yourself and allow yourself to heal. You still have more incredible memories to make. You still have new trustworthy people to meet. You still have plenty of days to laugh, to remember, to cherish, to keep in your mind forever. You are still young and have so much room to grow and so much opportunities ahead of you.
I do not know how big the sorrow is inside your heart. I would guess it is quite big. Although as each day goes by, it will get smaller. Each day it gets smaller, the smaller the sorrow will become, each day a bit smaller. Then it will become a longing. Our sorrow eventually becomes a longing.
• In Lady Gaga's famous lyrics, it's buried in my soul like that California gold. Everyone can use a happiness vitamin.
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You do not need to be perfect to be ready. You just need to be ready. Break ups are hard. Break ups are a gut punch. Getting involved in a new relationship after a break up takes time and you need to heal and do some emotional work. But you do not need to be perfect. Once you unpack and find who you are, you get a do-over. You can choose to get what you need and give what you want.
Accepting the fact that you loved someone is much harder than falling for that person. It takes time. It takes courage. But when you finally take that time, find the courage and let your guard down, you discover something spectacular. To create a world together and fill it with laughter and smiles, it is like a happiness vitamin. You take it every day to ensure you sleep, eat and live well. You can do it. Thanks to love.
The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.
Life is like that. You cannot rush things nor can you slow them down. So many of us try to spend so much energy to control life and it cannot be controlled. Life happens at its own time.
My next relationship will be my last. I am not looking. I am not worried. I am not rushing. I want this love to find me, learn me, want me, need me, and love me in slow motion. We have forever to go ♥
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