Constant Study

What if we constantly learned each other like a chosen field of study?

Ever notice if there's a subject that appeals to us, we'll take notice any time it comes up. In fact, it's often like an area of personal study. In the case of #dating, when a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies her. He learns her likes, dislikes, habits, and hobbies. But after he wins her heart, he often stops learning about her. This is also true in many cases for women. They start off admiring and building respect but afterwards, those feelings fade and reality reveals a flawed and imperfect "prince."

But if you consider this perspective: if the amount you studied others were equal to a high school diploma, then you should continue to learn about others until you gain a college, master's and/or ultimately a doctorate degree. More than often, I think the problems we have in relating to others is simply because we don't understand them. As I have said it before, we are so despearate to be understood that we forget to be understanding. Every person's character has a back story. And if it's not your story to tell, don't tell it.

Make them your chosen field of study. By wisdom a house is built, and by #understanding it is established and by knowledge, the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.

The secret to a constant great life is a constant state of gratitude.

Problems you face are only as big as you want it to be. If you can choose between a big problem and a small problem, then surely you must have the power to choose between a small problem and no problem at all. You always have an option. Much of what we face in life is all a matter of #perspective. When facing a challenge, decide to simply deal with it and do your best. That's how you gain control. Choose wisely ♥

• A quiet room can inhabit the virtues one needs in order to be happy in life: intelligence, friendship, strength and poetry with some beauty of fresh flowers