Dating is not for everyone. There are so many ways a relationship can fail, it's amazing that we are not all alone.
You will always be too much of something for someone: too needy, too fiercely #independent, too optimistic, too small, too loud, too soft, too wild, too #passionate. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone - profusely. But don't apologize for being who you are.
With that said, relationships fail not only because it is the wrong person, but also if you yourself are not yet the person you need to be.
You can make all the excuses for why you aren't in a place to be in a relationship. The honest truth is, whether you can admit it to yourself or not, if you are not capable of loving and giving up a part of yourself, you cannot love another person the way they need to be loved. You must always leave people better than how you found them.
Everyone seeks insight into love's deepest mysteries - how it feels when you find it, how it changes you, where to look for it. The potential for love exists in corners, in the most unlikely as well as the most obvious places. It's something you never imagined existed, something magical, a little scary when you think about it, and bigger than you ever dreamed. The unforgettable truth about love is that it is plentiful as oxygen. You simply have to breathe it in.
In my experience, love is chancy. When I lived in Arizona, everyone was obsessed with love. #Phoenix is a city full of saguaros, golf balls, transplants, and people with broken hearts. I have had my share of plenty of heartbreaks myself living there. I don't think as humans we can love each other without complications. Broken hearts have meant, for me, that you tried for something. Really there are all sorts of men out there. Eventually someone comes into your life and won't take everything from you. He doesn't care if you shave your legs every day, he already loves your body and already knows your entire life story. And there's a certain way he'll listen to you, lean in, and respond in a way that says "I have all the time in the world for you, my love." You can look into his eyes and feel the certainty that is there. The permission to have someone adore you for as long as you want them to is certainly acceptable terms.
:• Of all the music I have heard, love is what calms my soul. Sending you love notes from the Music City • Location: Grand Ole Opry l Nashville, TN ::
The one thing I know is that feelings are rarely mutual, so when they are, drop everything, forget belongings and expectations, forget the games, the days between texts, the hard to gets because this is it. It is what the entire world is after and if you've stumbled upon it by chance, by accident, take a deep breath and step forward. Let the rules, opinions and common sense crash down. When you find someone who loves the way you do, it isn't that you finally met. You have been in each other all along.
Eventually, love found you. That's your partner. That is the perfect person for you. Alone you are lost. Together you are home ♥
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